About Tai Fenix Kulystin

Everything is built on relationships.
Through them we discover who we are.

All of my work is about relationships. I provide therapeutic trauma coaching, somatic sex education, tarot and astrology readings, ritual design services, writing, and workshops for transformation, liberation, and social change. The coaching and education work I offer is about supporting and enriching the relationships my clients have with themselves, others, and the world. The divination and ritual work I offer is about helping my clients get more in tune with their own life through relationship with the more-than-human world.

I am a trans genderqueer being who is a fat, neuroqueer, kinky, polyamorous, queer witch and sex worker. Culturally, I am white (primarily of English and Irish ancestry with some German, French Canadian, and Eastern European), American, and middle class. I currently live and work on the unceded Duwamish and Coast Salish land, now named Seattle, and I grew up on the Tlingit and Haida land of Southeast Alaska.

As a student and practitioner of magic and witchcraft for nearly twenty years, I have a love of bringing the sacred and ritual into all aspects of my life and work. I am currently studying the Feri tradition of witchcraft and serve as Herald for the Seattle temple of The Fellowship of the Phoenix, a queer hermetic neopagan tradition and non-profit. In addition, I am an Adept in the Open Source Order of the Golden Dawn, and a practical and erotic Alchemist. I started seriously studying tarot and astrology around the same time as magic and witchcraft, though I have been working with them while I was still in single digits. I have been giving readings to friends and lovers for most of my life, and began offering professional readings in 2018.

Before all else, professionally and personally, I am dedicated to anti-oppressive trauma healing work utilizing empathy, embodiment, and pleasure. In 2015, I graduated from Antioch University Seattle with a self-designed Masters in Sacred Erotic Psychology, which was focused on uniting concepts from depth psychology, sacred sexuality, and erotic neurobiology in order to assist understanding of the soul-spirit-body-Self.  I also hold Certificates as a Sexological Bodyworker, Clinical Trauma Professional, and Transpersonal Hypnotherapist.  I make it my mission to be mindful, kind, and heart-centered in all that I do.

My life and work is dedicated to practicing sacred sexual healing, encouraging personal spiritual and psychological growth in myself and others, helping to foster the expansion of human consciousness, and furthering the healing of the earth.